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Alex Wheeler (CLAIRE DANES) and her husband Greg (JIM PARSONS) are approaching a crossroads that is all too familiar to New York City parents - finding the "right" primary school for their son, Jake.* Greg is a therapist working to build a private practice, while Alex has put a law career on hold to devote herself full-time to raising her son, a precocious four-year-old who happens to prefer Disney princesses to G.I. Joe. Aware that Jake has the potential to be a candidate for a scholarship at a private school, Jake's preschool director Judy (OCTAVIA SPENCER), a trusted friend of the family, encourages Alex to mention Jake's "gender expansive" play in their applications. After all, Judy suggests, it's a big part of who is, and these schools are looking for diversity. Besides, she asks Alex, doesn't she want Jake to land somewhere he can really thrive? Despite some initial misgivings, Alex and Greg take Judy's advice. But as the process continues, Jake's behavior becomes increasingly erratic and perplexing, and the question of what's really going on with Jake starts to create a rift between the two parents. Alex worries that the adults in Jake's life are labeling him prematurely, while Greg wonders if Jake's fondness for dress-up might be more than just a phase. The comments and opinions of Alex's mother Catherine (ANN DOWD) and single friend Amal (PRIYANKA CHOPRA) only contribute to the noise, and pretty soon it seems like everyone in Jake's life has something to say about him. As they struggle to navigate their roles as parents, Alex and Greg begin to see that they are not only confronting their concerns about what's best for Jake, but also trying to save the bond they have with each other. The story of a husband and wife struggling to do right by their son, A Kid Like Jake is a study of intimacy and parenthood and the fantasies that accompany both.
Rating
NR
Director
Silas Howard
Studio
IFC Films
Writer
Daniel Pearle
- All these CIS critics... have we learned nothing? Where are the trans/non-binary critics? This movie is amazing. It really bothers me that so many critics are missing the point. No, we don't see Jake that much but isn't that the point? I'm not sure how someone can watch this and miss THE WHOLE POINT. Danes is amazing. Dowd gives a delicate and hilarious performance. It's heart breaking and moving. Give it a shot. Stop letting these majority members dictate our narrative and what is and isn't our stories. They have no idea. They should have a seat and listen for a change.Reply
- This compassionate and sincere drama might hit close to home for some, but resonates widely with a message about inclusivity and embracing differences that doesn't turn exploitative or heavy-handed.Reply
- A Kid Like Jake succeeds on behalf of Howard's confident direction, Pearle's sharp-witted and empathetic script, and two outstanding performances from Danes and Parsons.Reply
- "A Kid Like Jake" tackles the tricky topic of gender dysphoria with sensitivity and grace.Reply
- A movie as generous and as nonjudgmental as its protagonists, as frustrated yet as gently questing as they are. Claire Danes and Jim Parsons are extraordinary.Reply
- Affecting and immersive, A Kid Like Jake tells its tale in a way that anyone who's raised a child will be able to relate to.Reply
- This film is a cynical but spot-on take on the world we live in today, where even Lego-loving tykes become wrapped up in movements.Reply
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- But the well-made point is that gender assignments aren't always intelligently designed, at least not for a world built out of boxes that come only in pink or blue.Reply
- There's no sensationalism here, just honest feelings and relatable concern, with Pearle making sure to keep challenges realistic, doing whatever he can to shoo away the artificiality of a television movie.Reply
- This is not a film about falling apart, but all the conversations and compromises that hold things together.Reply
- "A Kid Like Jake" might not be especially cinematic, but it is profound in its simplicity and truthfulness about what real fights sound like and what real lives look like.Reply
- Captivating, wise and emotionally engrossing with just the right balance of Truth and Spectacle. Claire Danes gives one of the best performances of her career.Reply
- A Kid Like Jake is a film that ought to add to the conversation about gender identity among young children.Reply
- A Kid Like Jake gives an honest, fascinating, and emotionally raw look at parenting in a new era which is a story that many parents need to pay attention to.Reply